Most relationships are largely transactional.
Your mom and dad take care of you when you’re young, you make them proud and give them something to brag about with their friends. Your girlfriend kisses and comforts you after a long day of work, you take her to the movies. In any relationship there’s always an element of giving and taking. If you said the successful man should pay, you’re wrong. When that happens, people will be more excited to hang out with you! #2 You’re a Taker Anytime you catch yourself thinking some negative… snaaaaaaap!īy repeatedly snapping yourself with a rubber band, you’ll condition your brain to associate complaining with pain. People find it exhausting to be around someone that is always complaining. Complaining makes it impossible to accept responsibility for and change your situation. Complaining puts you into a negative state Seriously, complaining is one of the worst habits you could possibly have. The true reasons everyone hates you! #1 You Are a ComplainerĬomplaining is so attractive… Said no one ever! Here are the truths that nobody else is willing to share with you… Today we’re going to talk about some of the most common mistakes you’re probably making if you think that everyone hates you.ĥ-6 years ago, I wondered the same thing… “Why don’t I have any friends?”
Really though, the more we can minimize our bad behaviors, the better off we’ll be.įor that reason, I’m going to share some ideas with you today. There are probably countless things that you’re doing to push people away from you. What, I do know is that everybody has some bad habits. Maybe you’re needy in your relationships or you just always say depressing stuff that pushes people away. Sometimes I am impatient if I’m stressed. Sometimes my girlfriend chews with her mouth open. What do I mean by that?Įveryone does some pretty annoying stuff. But… to be fair, you may be behaving in a way that pushes people away from you. I only used that headline so that this post would show up on the first page of Google and I could have the opportunity to tell you the truth. Look, it’s 100% false that everyone hates you. The truth is that there are tons of people out there that like you.Īt the very least, there are millions of people out there that would love to be your friend… It only seems that way because you allow yourself to focus on those people. That’s a waste of time, and it’s not the truth. Your job isn’t to focus on crying over the fact that, “Everyone hates me.” There will always be about one-third of people that hate you, a third of people that love you, and a third of people that don’t give a F%$# about you. No matter what you do, it’s impossible to make yourself liked by everyone. Think Everyone Hates You? Here’s the Truth… You can finish the sentence, however you’d like.Īny way you put it, you’d never buy that 100% of people believed something about Donald Trump. Imagine… A poll says 100% of Americans believe Donald Trump _. Have you ever heard of a president having a 100% percent approval rate? There are always going to be people that hate you. Why does everyone hate me? It’s a very common thought. While you may feel like you’re alone, there are actually many people that feel this way. Do you feel like that? Do you ever wonder, “Why do I have no friends?” Please read my disclosure for more info.Įveryone hates me.
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